Welcome to DamStar`s Blog

Thank you all so much for the reviews from my previous pressure post. To all the mummies and daddies I got your awesome feedbacks and I appreciate. God bless you all and my friends too! And this thank you smile in my picture above is for yall :). Today's Topic We live in a world where by people just think its right to keep grudges. Somepeople would say I would never apologize because he/she would think am a fool. Not in all situations, saying sorry means you really value that relationship and it helps and goes a long way. In my family, it's only my mum that doesn't get angry deeply because she's more emotional.  I pray everytime that God helps us control our anger even if it's not that bad but anger is a very bad thing and I would share a story. One day, Jimi and mide (couples) were on their way to work, they loved each other and it was just too awesome but Jimi had bad anger issues. Almost time for mide to leave home to work tha...

This is MaritalPressure! I have noticed that 40% of people that read my blog are my mums friends because I get their feedbacks, infact one of them said in the previous "thank you" post I didn't say "Eshe" lol, eshe gan ni o ma. I have always wanted to talk about this one day but am happy it's becoming a reality now.   The kind of pressure female kids "of age"(26 and above)  in our african word, get to get married is very bad, I heard it has started happening to guys sef lol. The thing about parents is that God gave us to them to guide us seriously not to change our minds 100% about our decisions, we have our own lives, my name is Oluwadamilola, my mums name is Olamide she gave birth to me but we are two different people, what I like isn't what She likes and what I want isn't what she wants and vice versa so like that. It's a very bad thing to rush into marriage and of course I would share a story.  Mothers especially...

Thanks to everyone that read part 1 and as I said on Monday, this part 2 is about pregnancy. There's this lady that got pregnant, she was so excited so she would post her whole pregnancy details online,if she gets back from the hospitals her followers would know what the doctor said, Instagram was her place and she would even make videos of her growing baby bump. Everyone could calculate when she's due, and even know how many weeks/months the pregnancy is sef. She finally gave birth and she shared it again on Instagram, she made videos and all at least everyday. Fast forward to a week or two after she had the baby, the baby died. She was heart broken, she now had to explain to her followers all that happened, something that is meant to be something personal but she made it known already because no video or post again it was very painful because explaining yourself to people that aren't even related to you is one very tough thing to do. She had to take all her...

What social media has caused in this our new life is unexplainable. Instagram is the number one. It gives people the advantage to show who they are Not to people and it's very painful.  Somepeople are just born to be fake. They just wanna lie and lie and just show off for no reason, dunno who they are trying to impress. Most of the ladies you see on social media at times they haven't even been to airport before talkless of knowing how a plane looks but they would say "when I went to France" .. Aunty please what's the name of the airport or how does it look like ? She goes "erm I can't really remember".  My friend told me a story that happened to one girl that me I know but her and this lady went to the same university . I would share. She said this girl, in her house they are just managing, they don't wear trouser and stuff but no one would know because she's just always out to impress guys and people on "instagram". Her...

Thanks to everyone for reading my blog and stuff. Have made up my mind about the 3 days I would be blogging which would be  Mondays , Wednesday's  and  Saturdays  EVERY WEEK. I hope to bring amazing and awesome topics and stories most people can share and relate to.  And also am working on creating an app so when i blog, it would automatically notify you instead of me or anyone sending links. Would let yall know when it's ready.  Twitter & Instagram: damstar_                         STORY Back in America, I just moved from Texas back to New Jersey, I had this Aunty I used to talk to but have never met her, we met through social media like most of my other friends. I went to check out the new school I was transferring to in New Jersey, so I messaged her that I went to check out my schl but I needed her advice about somethings so she should please call me when she's free because she's al...

Thanks to everyone that checked my blog yesterday and to those that commented and to those that messaged me privately 👍 I appreciate the love, May God reward everyoneof us IJN❤️.  It was a very awesome thing for me, I didn't tell my siblings or anyone when I opened it over night, their reaction when I woke up was awesome, it shows that any little thing I do they are ready to support me since they know writing is part of my dream as a young lady. They sent it to all their friends, I got views from weird countries that I don't even know people there. Also my mum called me when I woke up and said, OMG it's so lovely, have sent it to over 90 of my friends, they love it soooo much, she said "Damilola, I know you would be great, watch it and take it step by step and you would see what am saying". I believe you momma😎, Thanks for having my back!  So people asked me so many questions like can they share their own story or if they have a write up or something, well YES.....

Lool, my first post was supposed to be me introducing my self and why I opened this site smh, sorry it skipped my mind! My name is Damilola Fasuba, ☺️lawyer to be in few years, and a writer! By Gods grace I hope to publish my own book very soon and also I think I can write scripts too for movies and plays honestly I love to write a lot, I talk very well if I know you but if you are just meeting me you mighht think am a little saucy but am not :), I laugh a lot, I have 3 awesome siblings and yeah am the first born. One of my uncles came over for my mums birthday a few weeks ago and I gave him something I wrote just for him to go through it, he said "you like writing random stuff so why not open a blog and write and let people read?" I was like no jare, blog ke? It's too stressful and all, he then said you would just write when you feel like not that it's compulsory to write everyday, then I was like hmm I would think about it and boom! Here we are💃.. I would just be w...

       There are some parts of life we see everyday, for rich people/celebrities they see people always coming around, bringing gifts, acting all loved up but there's another part of life most people don't get to see which is sad. Most of all this people coming around now just come because they know "you have" they can always benefit from you in one way or the other. Can you just try to pretend like you don't have for a week? Everyone would become a stranger straight up! Sometimes we have put our mind to things, we are waiting for that specific time we wrote down to make it come through, but at times thats not the time God wants. God can make everything look like jazz/juju is having power over you but he knows what he's doing, when he now does it most of us even forget to say thank you :(.  I have heard a lot from people, so many stories and I would share one.  A woman was working in a very big company, her husband was very rich too but sickness and all did...