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God bless you all and my friends too! And this thank you smile in my picture above is for yall :).
Today's Topic
We live in a world where by people just think its right to keep grudges. Somepeople would say I would never apologize because he/she would think am a fool. Not in all situations, saying sorry means you really value that relationship and it helps and goes a long way.
In my family, it's only my mum that doesn't get angry deeply because she's more emotional.
I pray everytime that God helps us control our anger even if it's not that bad but anger is a very bad thing and I would share a story.
One day, Jimi and mide (couples) were on their way to work, they loved each other and it was just too awesome but Jimi had bad anger issues. Almost time for mide to leave home to work that's when Jimi decided he wanted to quickly eat before going and he didn't say it before so she was now angry like why didn't you tell me you would eat before going to work? I would miss my early duties and stuff because I just have to cook now, please stop by in one eatery to eat please am very sorry I can't cook anything now. Un-Understanding Jimi got angry, picked up his suit and left for work, he had planned not to talk to her for the whole day or even week, depending on the level of his anger. So mide kept on calling and calling Jimi wouldn't pick, she drove and when she got to work, on getting down from the car she had already worn her heels, she didn't know the office floor was still wet that's how she just walked in, only God knows how it happened she just slipped and hit her head on the wall. She was still conscious so she was holding her phone before she got in because she wanted to call her husband again, that's how this man just said let him call her back and tell her off for what she did, she picked and couldn't talk well, weeping and he just hung up he didn't know what happened. Next few minutes she gave up. No one to quickly help. Later they called her husband to come and pick up her body from the mortuary. Imagine the kind of impression, thoughts, regrets that would be flowing through his mind? .. Who knows maybe it was what she was thinking of that didn't let her concentrate and she just slipped like that. Till today Jimi can't forget mide because to him it's like he killed her and the worst part he didn't listen to her sorry before she died.
Let's learn to forgive and move on, it does a lot, no body knows when its time for them to leave this world lets just do good. I know we all get angry but after few minutes let's have a rethink and fix things. If you anger issue is very bad, Talk to God, there's nothing he can't do and I assure you he would do it IJN! Thanks for reading. Please leave your comments below and share with friends/family and loved ones.
With love #DamStar❤️🌟.
I pray he finds peace
ReplyDeleteWhat a choc... Forgiving is not always easy but it can save a life actually.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,forgiveness is liberating,when u learn to forgive someone for wronging you u feel relieved and free.anger is a serious issue,it destroys things that are not mendable at times...i had issues with anger,I had to fast and pray to be able to control my anger..i thank for how far ve come,although am still a work in progress...it is well
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Truth is when you forgive, you are doing yourself a favour... The best is to stay of what can get to you. There's room for anger but to be on a safe side, make people talks especially those that hurt you like the water on a ducks back... It will always roll off.
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