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Recently I was thinking about somethings and I just stumbled on "strict mothers" .. There's absolutely nothing wrong with correcting your child, I as a person, am going to be a strict mum with what people around me tell me. But some mothers take it to the worst level that their kids would be extremely scared to share things with them most especially when it's dealing with the opposite sex which is really bad because they tend to make decisions themselves instead of asking their mothers for advice. But how do you ask your mother if she's so strict and you are scared of her reaction ?  I was speaking to a very close friend of mine, she is in a serious relationship, so I was just like "have you told your mum" she said no o please, I don't want trouble blah blah in my mind am like what? At what age? Would you marry your mum?  75% of the people I know that have strict mums do the worst things! It's not their fault tbh, it's because

In life, as we grow everyday, we learn. Am a better person today because of yesterday's experience and lessons. We tend to judge people too fast, we let people's unknown opinions about us get to us then we react with what's been said or done by that person. I was speaking with my Aunty last week, she just came back from a journey and I haven't seen her since last year, so we had a lot to talk about, then I was talking about something then she said we shouldn't be reacting for everything that the most painful truth is most people don't know what they are doing is wrong and that really got to me. Let me share my experience a little, I promised my self this may to start working on my self because my anger started making me a different person, people see me as either being too saucy or being too rude when am angry meanwhile they forget that it's just a reflect action from a temperamental person. I normally use to be very playful and hardly angry by I get a

 Hey guys! Really sorry for not posting, most of my friends message me about it but my laptop spoilt and I was being very lazy to post. What I want to discuss today is the misconception in Africa. We (Africans) believe in so much irrelevant things to be honest, we have weird thoughts about things and it shouldn't be so. My focus today would be mostly about marriage. Too much is expected from you, just too much. I would hear, getting married and having your baby 9 months after is the best. Well, that's for some people, everyone wouldn't like that, some want to enjoy their marriage and work more before any baby. In African home. After you get married, they wanna see your belly popping out even that month -_- I watched one of the interviews kemi adetiba did with one of nigerias female comedian. She said she was married before but she had to leave, can't really remember why but what I figured from it is that, she was telling her mum how her husband cheats etc