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Last day of the month?  Can't believe November is here already😱, this year is way too fast.. Looking back and I'm happy I achieved somethings most especially my first book, now looking up to God almighty to make next year more amazing for me. Amen. I've always liked professional jobs to be honest.. I hardly see myself as a handiwork person though I'm a very fast learner when it comes to handiwork and I know a few of them also but I think the best thing I love to do is WRITING.  It just brings joy to my heart, it's amazing that how much I write or chat with anyone, when you meet me in person I'm a little bit more reserved than I type lol .. I can express my self better through writing. I just find joy in writing anything I'm interested in.  I've had people tell me, look for something else to do at least don't just have your degree for nothing.. Try to plan on working with it . Well, I don't see myself really working with my degree...

Most people love when their guy is older even if it's months they are okay with it but does it really matter lol?  I have many people I talk to daily so we obviously discuss different issues. Recently my friend (older than me with almost 4 years) was telling me that her partner is a year younger than her and she told her mum and her mum was against it immediately lol all these parents sef, I remember the day I said I didn't mind and my aunt shouted and said so you want someone that is your younger brothers age mate to climb you or something like that lol.  Left to me age doesn't matter but I wouldn't like to date someone I'm older than to be honest .. Why?  Just because 60% of ladies are more mature than guys. Sometimes you are talking to a guy that is your age mate and you can't believe what is coming out of his mouth. Too bad. But then there are so guys that you are older than just a few months not even up to a year or even a year and they act so m...

Lately I've been doing some personal check on myself. I was talking to my siblings the other day and they go "You go out of your way for people too much".. "You like making people feel too important" they were emphasizing on it (especially my brother)  .. It really got to me because they were giving examples but the good thing is I know when and where to draw the line.  I really want to know if we have people that have some of these my Features lol because my siblings don't have it, just me. The thing about me is that Im really nice when I like you(that I know) but I hardly like people like that o sure my people know. If I don't like you.. I can't hide it you just have to notice, I don't know how to hide my feelings I just say it the way it comes to my mind that's why sometimes I wonder how people can't say their mind  .. One day my mum told me my bluntness would put me in trouble if I'm not careful lol (God forbid) ..I have...

Hello beautiful people.  I really dislike topics like this but someone asked me this week and she said she really wants me to write about my view, first of all, I can't change anyone's mind so ild just go with the policy I follow.  Welllllll, in this 21st century, it doesn't matter o! Before, I heard on your wedding night they would put white cloth to see if blood would come out and all those stuff but now, no body really checks those things but coming back to your personal self.  Now, I'm not going to use myself so I don't either sound too bad or too perfect, ild use me advising my daughter. Don't you think your partner of many years (Later your husband) would be extremely proud of you when he finds out he is the first man doing it?   Though I don't think anyone should be defined by that because some virgins don't have any sense, just virgin for mouth but no character and also some didn't mean to do it but circumstances around.. but ...