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If it will, it will.

This is something that happened to me personally and I just have to share because the rate at which people bother themselves about some things ehnn. We have to understand that things can't always work out for us like that, if it would work out, it would at "Gods Time".

After I finished high school, my dad wanted me to go to Babcock university but then I wrote the exam and I was picked for another course So someone contacted my dad and told him about america, he told me around April when he went there, I wasn't really sure, I was just excited that omg if it eventually works out that would be awesome. So then I told my friends like 3 of them that I was close to that time, after a week we were checking something about university of lagos ( I was in ss3 then) then I was like ah Pls help me check too o and one of my friends I told about the america thing said "ah Dami, aren't you going to america again" I was so shocked and pained because I didn't expect her to even say it out and some ss2 students were there so they were kind of laughing, I felt bad but then I just ignored it. Around August I found out that my america stuff was working out so I had to apply for visa and all, I was so excited so when I got to the embassy, I went in alone, my parents were outside, I was already very nervous because they've been refusing people infront of me, so it was my turn, I went. The man wasn't even smiling, he asked some questions I was just looking like what is this one saying, then he goes "am sorry miss Fasuba ...." I got my passport and all back but I wasn't still sure yet that I was refused, so when I came outside I saw people and I saw my mum and my dad, when my mum saw me coming back with my passport she was devastated, then she goes "won o fun eh" I cried from V.I to magodo, it was a very bad experience I was sad, I started thinking of many bad things because I had kept my whole mind there, my dad knew I was so pained, his eyes were red because of how I was crying so he decided to take me again to re apply. Then he said he would go in with me Lmaoooo!! I was already in afe babalola university as at this time, so my appointment was for November 16 I had packaged well and I fasted and prayed because it's not easy o those Americans can be very crazy. So that same day my dad applied to renew and my mum applied newly but as couples they said they have to go in together because theirs is visiting and mine is student, my dad was like Ah! I was laughing at that point so then they went inside and all I saw my mum smiling as she was coming out and my dad was just coming out like they didn't even treat him well, I don't know how my dad still got himself inside again it's still funny to me because they were like am big enough to go my self my dad said no! We sha went in and then we sat, the very First Lady was just declining everyone, I told my dad in his ear "I don't want that woman to interview me, she has been refusing people" then my dad goes "they wouldn't put you there IJN" I said ️amen, under 2 mins I saw my number on the woman's side. I was sad, like what would I do? As I was standing up my dad goes "don't worry, if God would do it, he would do it", I just carried one badass courage like a boss, so I got there and she smiled, how are you Miss Fasuba ? I said am fine thank you! She then asked if the person at my back was my husband, I said no my dad. She said okay. Then she asked questions, I was just answering like a boss, she was so proud of my answers, she kept nodding and saying very good! My dad didn't even say anything he was just looking, american embassy don't joke with bank statement o ️imagine i have busted the woman's head with my answers that when my dad wanted to bring out the bank statement she said no need! Am like yeas! Then she now asked that have I travelled before I said yes and she checked my passport and nodded. She said why don't I want to do UK since I have UK visa i said I prefer america, she sha wanted to confuse me but God confused her she just said congratulations!  I didn't even wait for her to finish .. I smiled sooooo well, it was q very good thing, when we came out that my mum saw my dad was talking to me she was full of joy like finally. If you've experienced a refusal visa stuff, you would be able to relate to what am saying. 

After staying in America for over a year I started thinking like and this is what I was really fighting for, it was now like a normal thing in my eye that I was disturbing my dad that I want to come to Nigeria. 

There's nothing like getting what you have always aimed for, my own simple story is for everyone, don't think, if A doesn't work out, it still has 25 other letters, one day one day what you want would be yours soon. 
God bless! 
#Damstar









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  1. I can relate tho... Painful something

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  3. Yes oooo,destiny can only be delayed,it can never be denied...nice one dam dam

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