Skip to main content

If it will, it will.

This is something that happened to me personally and I just have to share because the rate at which people bother themselves about some things ehnn. We have to understand that things can't always work out for us like that, if it would work out, it would at "Gods Time".

After I finished high school, my dad wanted me to go to Babcock university but then I wrote the exam and I was picked for another course So someone contacted my dad and told him about america, he told me around April when he went there, I wasn't really sure, I was just excited that omg if it eventually works out that would be awesome. So then I told my friends like 3 of them that I was close to that time, after a week we were checking something about university of lagos ( I was in ss3 then) then I was like ah Pls help me check too o and one of my friends I told about the america thing said "ah Dami, aren't you going to america again" I was so shocked and pained because I didn't expect her to even say it out and some ss2 students were there so they were kind of laughing, I felt bad but then I just ignored it. Around August I found out that my america stuff was working out so I had to apply for visa and all, I was so excited so when I got to the embassy, I went in alone, my parents were outside, I was already very nervous because they've been refusing people infront of me, so it was my turn, I went. The man wasn't even smiling, he asked some questions I was just looking like what is this one saying, then he goes "am sorry miss Fasuba ...." I got my passport and all back but I wasn't still sure yet that I was refused, so when I came outside I saw people and I saw my mum and my dad, when my mum saw me coming back with my passport she was devastated, then she goes "won o fun eh" I cried from V.I to magodo, it was a very bad experience I was sad, I started thinking of many bad things because I had kept my whole mind there, my dad knew I was so pained, his eyes were red because of how I was crying so he decided to take me again to re apply. Then he said he would go in with me Lmaoooo!! I was already in afe babalola university as at this time, so my appointment was for November 16 I had packaged well and I fasted and prayed because it's not easy o those Americans can be very crazy. So that same day my dad applied to renew and my mum applied newly but as couples they said they have to go in together because theirs is visiting and mine is student, my dad was like Ah! I was laughing at that point so then they went inside and all I saw my mum smiling as she was coming out and my dad was just coming out like they didn't even treat him well, I don't know how my dad still got himself inside again it's still funny to me because they were like am big enough to go my self my dad said no! We sha went in and then we sat, the very First Lady was just declining everyone, I told my dad in his ear "I don't want that woman to interview me, she has been refusing people" then my dad goes "they wouldn't put you there IJN" I said ļøamen, under 2 mins I saw my number on the woman's side. I was sad, like what would I do? As I was standing up my dad goes "don't worry, if God would do it, he would do it", I just carried one badass courage like a boss, so I got there and she smiled, how are you Miss Fasuba ? I said am fine thank you! She then asked if the person at my back was my husband, I said no my dad. She said okay. Then she asked questions, I was just answering like a boss, she was so proud of my answers, she kept nodding and saying very good! My dad didn't even say anything he was just looking, american embassy don't joke with bank statement o ļøimagine i have busted the woman's head with my answers that when my dad wanted to bring out the bank statement she said no need! Am like yeas! Then she now asked that have I travelled before I said yes and she checked my passport and nodded. She said why don't I want to do UK since I have UK visa i said I prefer america, she sha wanted to confuse me but God confused her she just said congratulations!  I didn't even wait for her to finish .. I smiled sooooo well, it was q very good thing, when we came out that my mum saw my dad was talking to me she was full of joy like finally. If you've experienced a refusal visa stuff, you would be able to relate to what am saying. 

After staying in America for over a year I started thinking like and this is what I was really fighting for, it was now like a normal thing in my eye that I was disturbing my dad that I want to come to Nigeria. 

There's nothing like getting what you have always aimed for, my own simple story is for everyone, don't think, if A doesn't work out, it still has 25 other letters, one day one day what you want would be yours soon. 
God bless! 
#Damstar









Comments

  1. I can relate tho... Painful something

    ReplyDelete
  2. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Yes oooo,destiny can only be delayed,it can never be denied...nice one dam dam

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Finally! - Am A Writer & Author

i came back from school (America) December 2014 hoping to go back as soon as possible but my dad had another plan for me. He wanted me to transfer schools. Different things happened. I had the longest holiday from school in 2015, it wasn't easy for me too many things happened at once but then God doesn't just delay you for no reason, this particular holiday am talking about Birthed "ONCE UPON A TIME"..  I was bored, nothing to do, then I picked up my laptop and started typing. I am grateful to God for making this my dream a reality. From the onset my dad supported me and my mum was my backbone, my siblings would read the story over and over again and say "Sister Damilola you tried".. I never knew I would write a book but I always knew I loved to write, and I had intention of writing scripts and probably sell or give out but i never knew I would do this, right now i have about 3 short stories i have written almost like once upon a time. i had a tough...

Independent woman!

I don't blog on Sunday's but I had to just put up this story and I want it to get to as many people as possible so because of that, there wouldn't be any story up until upper week :).   Every day of my life since have been growing into a woman, I have always imagined myself as a very strong and independent woman. I don't like depending on people at all, I hate it! If you ask my parents am sure they would tell you, i just love to do things on my own because that brings no dissappointment.. Parents dissappoint, friends dissappoint, even partners and siblings dissappoint the only person that doesn't dissappoint is God and I know he has my back. Growing up has shown me so many things and how people can be, it's even the ones that you really love deeply that start showing you that you don't really mean anything to them, some wouldn't even want to talk to you because you probably forgot to message or something and it's even worse because you even ask peopl...

Does being a "Virgin" really matter? (please I want to know your opinion)

Hello beautiful people.  I really dislike topics like this but someone asked me this week and she said she really wants me to write about my view, first of all, I can't change anyone's mind so ild just go with the policy I follow.  Welllllll, in this 21st century, it doesn't matter o! Before, I heard on your wedding night they would put white cloth to see if blood would come out and all those stuff but now, no body really checks those things but coming back to your personal self.  Now, I'm not going to use myself so I don't either sound too bad or too perfect, ild use me advising my daughter. Don't you think your partner of many years (Later your husband) would be extremely proud of you when he finds out he is the first man doing it?   Though I don't think anyone should be defined by that because some virgins don't have any sense, just virgin for mouth but no character and also some didn't mean to do it but circumstances around.. but ...