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Appreciate Yourself !!! - (My random experience)


I am someone that complains so much mostly about myself, i act like am very strong but not really, some times i still wish for some unbelievable things.



my hair is the hardest part of my body. it becomes so tiring at times when i try to comb it and its stupidly hard, if i relax/perm it, it only last soft for like 2-3 days, i cant pack it and it wouldnt puff out, if i put cream like this,it shinessss so much more than normal. i look at my friends and wish to have their soft hair. my hair is very long (well - boarding house) cut everything, very full and super Black! when hair dressers are making my hair they say its like attachment lol, when i was in high school, the hair dresser would collect more for my hair than others, if i make corn-row/weaving to school, in 3 days everything has removed, the under growth would be coming out,it would just be so rough.

The same with the hair on my body. My legs/arms ... they grow so fast, i have so shave like every month or 2-3 weeks. my dad told me to stop shaving the hair on my leg but my cousin told me in america that i have to shave the hair on my leg because it wouldnt attract most guys, i became nervous after she said that but my dad said the first time that attracted him to my mum was her hair and the hair on her body. this life ehn people are very different, one mans food is another mans poison. So i walked into a shop to buy something, when i was leaving one woman tapped me and i looked back, she asked me if that was my real hair (i didnt pack it i just combed it out) i said yes, she goes. please my dear every morning when you wake up if you dont have anything to thank God for, please thank him for your hair, i really wish to have like your hair, i smiled and said thank u ma. since that day i actually started appreciating my hair more ... because it just made me realize that God created it for a purpose, who knows maybe thats what my future husband would like ? .. 

please lets learn to appreciate ourselves and what we have, its very easy to fall into the world "talk" but trust me appreciating yourself is just the best, it makes you happy with yourself and confident, never regret how God created you, he created you like that for a purpose. 







 thats my sister... we are all hairy in my family :)


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  1. Don't ever let anyone to make you feel less about yourself.look into the mirror every morning and tell ur self how beautiful and wonderful you are and never forget to always thank God for it.

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  2. 👍🏾, if you don't appreciate yourself, no one can appreciate you!

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  3. Yeah! We are all fearfully and wonderfully made.

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  4. Ohmy,everytime i read your blog,i find something similar you have to mine .When people discover eachother ,there's always a reason for it .Been a loong time I've been stalking you 🙈🙈🙈 .
    I'm a hugeee fann
    and i'll support you anytime ❤❤❤💞💞
    -Morayo

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