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Good day everyone.. 
Something has been going through my mind for a few days and it's about patience and waiting for the right time.
I have a lot of big sisters same as aunties so they tend to tell me a lot of stories when they are free.
I have two examples of "Gods time is the Best".. Sometimes it's not about how far but how well something is done. Don't ever compare yourself to anyone, we have different "heads".
Trust me I don't have patience for most things but I keep hearing "Dami you need to be patient" so have worked and am still working on myself. When something you are trying isn't working out you have to understand that because it doesn't work out doesn't mean you've failed. Sometimes God has a reason for delaying you. 

Randomly my Aunty was asking me "so who's your boyfriend", jokingly and I was rolling my eyes like no oneeeee. She smiled and she was like "I'm just teasing you".. Your husband would come at the right time and I said amen. Then she graduated to telling me a story.

She goes: when I was much younger, I had boyfriends, but there was one friend I had, she never had a boyfriend, we even thought it was a curse, we were 4, myself, the other lady and 2 other ladies. 
Me and the 2 other ladies had boyfriends but this lady didn't even have one, one day there was a party in her area, the party was next to her house so she was sitting outside, a man from the party came to ask for water that he needed to wash his hands or something, she stood up and gave it to him and he said thanks and he left. After 2 days the man came back and said he's looking for her, not even knowing the man was "Americana" lol! #AmericanBased .. After a few days he started talking about love etc, he was to be in Nigeria for about 3 months or so, this was 2000 , would you believe that when he was leaving, he left with her and now they are married. 

Meanwhile this my Aunty married 2009, this is someone that has had countless boyfriends that would even be laughing at the Aunty that doesn't have boyfriend, she said this Aunty was the first to travel out. 

Another story: 
Two aunties were friends, one was so freaked about marriage, she wanted to get married , my Aunty said she's been saying she wants to get Married first immediately they graduate university. God helped her and he did it. She married 2005, so the other Aunty married 2010, as we speak, the Aunty that got married 2005 hasn't given birth to any child but the one that got married 2010 gave birth to her third child 2013.

So this life is not about rush, when it's your time, it's your time. You can't force God, patience is really necessary to survive in this life. Because someone did something before you , it doesn't mean yours can't be greater. Please be careful who you compete with, infact don't compete with anyone, you are a different person from even the mother that gave birth to you. 
Gods time is the best. As for me.. I know God gat me 100%.. 

Have a nice day fam! Pls share with your friends and family! 

#DamStar💫✨🌟

Comments

  1. Pweetyblack20 June 2016 at 20:15

    God time is always the best,and while u wait,pray.God bless us all

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  2. Unknown21 June 2016 at 06:59

    Waiting is important because you get what you deserve from God. God's timing is better than our dreams.

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  3. Unknown21 June 2016 at 06:59

    Waiting is important because you get what you deserve from God. God's timing is better than our dreams.

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