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As promised last week, I have started blogging again this week! And this is a story a friend sent to me. Feel free to share with others and try to read and understand.  I  read my sister Damstar previous blog post and I thought I should share this for the married women and the single ladies too so they can pick one or two things from it.  There was one day my mom sold a shoe to my neighbour. She liked the shoe and all and she even paid already. Then that night, my mom received a call from her that 'Her husband said she should return the shoe because she didn't seek his consent'. My mom was dumbstruck! Like she hadn't heard something like that in her life. The next day, the lady came with the shoe and said that her husband even asked her to return it that night that she can only wear or use anything he buys for her yet she's working. She's a good fashion designer that makes good cash! So I asked myself; "What should she use her money for?" If she wants ...

I don't blog on Sunday's but I had to just put up this story and I want it to get to as many people as possible so because of that, there wouldn't be any story up until upper week :).   Every day of my life since have been growing into a woman, I have always imagined myself as a very strong and independent woman. I don't like depending on people at all, I hate it! If you ask my parents am sure they would tell you, i just love to do things on my own because that brings no dissappointment.. Parents dissappoint, friends dissappoint, even partners and siblings dissappoint the only person that doesn't dissappoint is God and I know he has my back. Growing up has shown me so many things and how people can be, it's even the ones that you really love deeply that start showing you that you don't really mean anything to them, some wouldn't even want to talk to you because you probably forgot to message or something and it's even worse because you even ask peopl...

LOOOL sorry for the suspense Fam! So this is the continuation of Thursday's story.  So as she tried to call his number to see if he was the one in the guy she was looking at, he then picked that he is the one that she should come into the car. She was scared and shocked.  She hopped in, the man was so fat like in a jeep he was still looking like sardine inside can. She was shocked, she then asked him who the person on his facebook profile picture was then he said that's his younger brother in America or so she now asked him why he lied and why he didn't show his true self, he said he didn't want to discourage her, from there she was already getting nervous/angry. So when they got where he was taking her to she found out by the gate that it was an hotel. She then screamed already! She asked why hotel? Don't you have house or something? He didn't say anything he just told her to come down, she followed him down, he then took her into the room in the hotel, she was...

Randomly one day I was telling my mum about a story, sometimes we just have to go through a very rough path to find joy and what we want. She then shared a story with me and I would share it too :). There was this lady, she was schooling in the eastern part of nigeria, she wasn't so exposed to social media life and all, she was using Nokia torchlight (3310) or something so when she got into the university she saw that everyone was having camera phone/ smartphones and all so she decided to also save money to get one. She noticed everyone used to use facebook, so she signed up and started using Facebook too. After two days, she got a friend request from one handsome guy, she then checked his nice pictures and she accepted it. They started talking and talking, from there he started sending her money 10k,20k even 50k for different projects and all. He was a very nice friend so he had travelled to the UK for something so when he arrived he messaged her again to come and get the things h...

I have watched serveral movies and read different stories and even heard different ones. So am going to share one of it today.   Somepeople are so stingy like I can't explain, it's very sad because me if I like you I can do anything for you and if I don't and I see you need help I would do it but somepeople are self centered with anything, if you ask them for somethig they would always give excuse, I have people am very close to that are like that, they are nice but they are stingy and am sure they even know. What's there to help if you have? Ordinary 1000 somepeople have but they would still cut it to 500 naira 😑, somepeople are even from very rich homes but they would still minimize their life. If i don't give you, believe me it's because I don't have and if I have i would try my best to do one I can. And to stingy people, your reward is coming . There was a man and his wife, they were stingy to the core, asin they were so stingy that if they fart and the...

At times we just have to think twice.. God can be awesome, he helps us when we even think all hope is lost! Myself and my mum went to my uncles house yesterday, so on our way back this rain just started all of a sudden ..  I was angry because I hate third mainland bridge, it's too long and scary.. This rain just started heavily, it was just too heavy, I was just kind of pitying my mum because as she was activating the wiper, it couldn't even withstand the rain, that rain was just too heavy. So me I was just praying because my mum was just horning and horning somepeople couldn't see again, the rain don block everybody eye. When we were almost getting down from third mainland bridge, we were at the middle, I just saw one small car it almost fell inside the water, at that point my heart skipped, I started thinking of some weird bad things, I just kept on saying God forbid .. I wonder what just brought the car back down because the car was already slanting towards the green and...

Sorry for not putting up a story on Thursday, I am extremely "squashed" up at the moment so it's taking my time and all, because of that, as sad as it might sound but I just have to say it, I might be blogging twice a week now, if I have so much time, I would blog three times but if not Tuesday/Thursday/Saturday. You can check on the blog on those days for a new story.   Today's Story!  Different things happen to us daily, at times we ask God why is it happening? But it might still turn around to be good.  I was speaking with one of my sisters about a week ago, I was telling her something then she told me that so many things have to happen for us to say that's our testimony, you can't just want money or child or husband to come up like that without you having a story to tell, God wants us to build our testimony so people can learn from us and rejoice with us. If your testimony is in something, you would go through a lot because that'...