Shared Story!

As promised last week, I have started blogging again this week! And this is a story a friend sent to me. Feel free to share with others and try to read and understand. 

I read my sister Damstar previous blog post and I thought I should share this for the married women and the single ladies too so they can pick one or two things from it. 

There was one day my mom sold a shoe to my neighbour. She liked the shoe and all and she even paid already. Then that night, my mom received a call from her that 'Her husband said she should return the shoe because she didn't seek his consent'. My mom was dumbstruck! Like she hadn't heard something like that in her life. The next day, the lady came with the shoe and said that her husband even asked her to return it that night that she can only wear or use anything he buys for her yet she's working. She's a good fashion designer that makes good cash! So I asked myself; "What should she use her money for?" If she wants to buy anything, she has to tell the husband beforehand. She can't make any decisions on her own. 

So there's this woman I know and she was telling me about the money she has personally and I was shocked! I asked her 'how?' and she was laughing saying 'Who will want to be a liability to her husband?' She has her own business and her own profit. Even if her husband gives her money and he needs out of the money he gave her, he would still ask her to borrow him and he'd def refund it so my her husband lost his job and for the first months, he was broke. His wife's business covered up for his household until he started his new business now. That's the advantage of a wife's job in the family. If you are reading this and your husband is stopping you from working, sit him down! Explain the advantage. This is a 21st century world where a lot of things need money in other for it to be successful. Don't fight with him. Pray about it. 

Don't be a woman that needs a man, depends on a man and can't do anything without a man. Be a woman a man needs! Yes we can do it, it is possible. #GirlPower

Well left to me,I got so many replies from my previous story both good and bad and I would still forever stand on my word that always try to have your own if you have the opportunity. Because I wonder why a man should tell his wife to go and return the shoe she bought because of whatever reason.  I just pray God helps everyone of us so we can achieve our purpose on earth. 

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