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Back! Bigger!! Better!!! - Mixed feelings/ Plans/ Advice.


Hello, its been a while.

Why i took a break & Mixed feeling


I purposely took a break, you know how human beings are, mood swings and everything. My friends have been messaging, the people i send the link of my blog to etc, they want to know why i suddenly stopped. You know its a new year, so many things are on my mind, i am trying to adjust myself.

So i had a very big vision last year, i wanted it to start working immediately but then God tells you its my time and my choice to decide not yours, i also had so many issues with people around because i was being too nice. i decided this year that i would change so many things about myself because am not getting any younger.
One thing is inconveniencing myself for others! that just had to stop, thats why i started having issues with some people because am trying to be who i am, i cant be forcing myself to please people No! even some particular people i just have to reduce my relationship with them because they still want to see me as that Dami meanwhile they forget that Dami has to change because shes growing. its a phase in life we go through, you have to get to know your self very well, start paying attention to yourself not any other person around. some people dont worth your time,care and effort to be very honest. I have friends that all they know is to talk about what has happened before, pls leave what has happened and move on, find solution, talking about the past would only hurt you, move on.

So i just had to take some time off, getting to know myself and i have noticed that am even more happy with myself because now i just care about what i think not what "anyone" thinks anymore, even you notice that when you still changing yourself to satisfy yourself, you begin to fall in love with the right people and then you start knowing who really cares and wants you, not who you have to be pleasing. with everything it just had to be mood swings everyday, now i am happy i want to put up a post, the next minute i dont want to do anything so thats basically why i stopped for a while but well, we stop-comeback to get better. So hopefully now i can be doing my weekly blogging by Gods grace at least i would be trying maybe at least every two weeks because i randomly get the "Thank you so much, that post on your blog helped" and i appreciate it.

Plans


I have plenty plans, i have to launch  my book and i have been writing other books with so many experiences i see, says a lot about life and how i deal with some of my issues. Am still very much younger than i think, so i tend to talk more about reality because i deal with so many kind of people everyday and i know how they handle situations, i pray my books can change people and they can also have fun while reading it. I always wanted my book launch to be on my birthday (July 14) but its on Thursday and unfortunately most people wouldn't make it so i just moved it to July 16 which is a Saturday so hopefully it all works out well. I hope that students would also be able to read it in schools in the nearest future and i hope "once upon a time" makes a good start mark for me in this "Writing Game" and in the nearest future i hope i can write stories for movie producers and short plays .

Advice

This life is just once, please dont force yourself on people or dont inconvinince yourself because you want to please others no, thats never the way forward, if you show your real self, do what you like, tell people off when they are wrong, the right people would come to you. I just really love to make the people i like happy but so many instances have revealed to me that mehn you gotta change, this people dont worth it, keep your circle small and in the process of changing you just have to loose some friends/people, its normal just be happy wiht yourself,  if you made mistake, look for a way forward, dont keep reflecting on the same issue, thats not gonna solve anything and lastly love and make time out for the ones that love you. Life is very short, live it to the fullest, be happy and be fruitful. Incase you are having a bad day, just tell God to make you happy and decide to be happy,its very tough how i talk about being so confident i have my weak side too that people that care just cheer me up but then if you want to be happy, be happy! if you keep thinking and thinking nothing is gonna change just do your best and leave the rest for God.

Thank you for reading, pls feel free to share with your friends/contacts, its very necessary. God bless you and yours!


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Comments

  1. Pweetyblack29 February 2016 at 11:15

    Yaaaay,my bae is back...my dear you ve to be happy with yourself before u can be happy with someone else
    Self love is key

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  2. Unknown29 February 2016 at 13:30

    Self love comes first and that can be attain when you open yourself more to God to direct you.... Great work, really missed reading your blog

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