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I am someone that complains so much mostly about myself, i act like am very strong but not really, some times i still wish for some unbelievable things. my hair is the hardest part of my body. it becomes so tiring at times when i try to comb it and its stupidly hard, if i relax/perm it, it only last soft for like 2-3 days, i cant pack it and it wouldnt puff out, if i put cream like this,it shinessss so much more than normal. i look at my friends and wish to have their soft hair. my hair is very long (well - boarding house) cut everything, very full and super Black! when hair dressers are making my hair they say its like attachment lol, when i was in high school, the hair dresser would collect more for my hair than others, if i make corn-row/weaving to school, in 3 days everything has removed, the under growth would be coming out,it would just be so rough. The same with the hair on my body. My legs/arms ... they grow so fast, i have so shave like every month or 2-3 weeks...

This topic is a very tough one because I can relate countless times, I am the kind of person that thinks a lot, even if it's something little I just start imagining strange and weird things. But I have accepted that when God wants us to grow he has to make us uncomfortable. I wanted to buy something, came to see my friend so outside there's a woman selling something, I had already gotten what I needed so I was waiting for my change then one woman came out, I saw her right eye and I knew something was wrong, the black stuff inside our normal eyes was almost white in hers, I later found out that this woman was partially blind, I was staring at her for a couple of minutes she was touching things before taking one step, it sounds so normal but to be honest it's not. It's so sad because somepeople can see with their two eyes and they believe God hasn't been awesome to them, you think you have issues until you hear someone else's problem.  Same with this...

Hello, its been a while. Why i took a break & Mixed feeling I purposely took a break, you know how human beings are, mood swings and everything. My friends have been messaging, the people i send the link of my blog to etc, they want to know why i suddenly stopped. You know its a new year, so many things are on my mind, i am trying to adjust myself. So i had a very big vision last year, i wanted it to start working immediately but then God tells you its my time and my choice to decide not yours, i also had so many issues with people around because i was being too nice. i decided this year that i would change so many things about myself because am not getting any younger. One thing is inconveniencing myself for others! that just had to stop, thats why i started having issues with some people because am trying to be who i am, i cant be forcing myself to please people No! even some particular people i just have to reduce my relationship with them because they still want to se...

Hello everyone, it took me this long to say thank you for your calls and messages and comments and likes... everything! I really appreciate, when i posted it on instagram, i got unexpected dm's that is from my old school classmates, it was so unbelievable, social media helps alot this days. Some saying they have been trying to reach me etc... sometimes its the little things that matter most to you. Upon how long the blog post was, some read and still came to ask me similar questions LOL. Am at your service. 1. When are we going to be able to get the book? - You would be able to get the book after i launch it, It would be available directly through me and also probably konga and jumai. Would check up about book shops and probably announce on my book launch. 2. When is your book launch? - July 16, 2016. Wanted it on my birthday which is July 14 but thats a Thursday and most people would be at work etc so Saturday is more convenient. 3. Why did you put it up early January...

i came back from school (America) December 2014 hoping to go back as soon as possible but my dad had another plan for me. He wanted me to transfer schools. Different things happened. I had the longest holiday from school in 2015, it wasn't easy for me too many things happened at once but then God doesn't just delay you for no reason, this particular holiday am talking about Birthed "ONCE UPON A TIME"..  I was bored, nothing to do, then I picked up my laptop and started typing. I am grateful to God for making this my dream a reality. From the onset my dad supported me and my mum was my backbone, my siblings would read the story over and over again and say "Sister Damilola you tried".. I never knew I would write a book but I always knew I loved to write, and I had intention of writing scripts and probably sell or give out but i never knew I would do this, right now i have about 3 short stories i have written almost like once upon a time. i had a tough...

Happy new year everyoneeeeee. Am happy most of us made it to 2016,i hope God keeps us till 2017 and many more years to come.  i have been away for a while almost a month, was feeling very lazy to post at first then things started coming up like my Aunty had her introduction and court wedding, happy it all went well, may be when the official pictures come i would post them IF SHE AGREES, i actually wanted to take a week break or two from my phone then it spoilt in the process so everything just happened at once. My friends and some random people would message me to ask why i haven't posted anything etc, sorryyy. This new year 2016, i want to carry people along very well, i want to use my blog more, i want people to know more about me and i intend to help people in the nearest future. 2015 was quite tight for me because of the random things that took over but am glad towards the last days of December 2015, God answered one of my prayers since February 2015 and i know he w...

This is something that happened to me personally and I just have to share because the rate at which people bother themselves about some things ehnn. We have to understand that things can't always work out for us like that, if it would work out, it would at "Gods Time". After I finished high school, my dad wanted me to go to Babcock university but then I wrote the exam and I was picked for another course So someone contacted my dad and told him about america, he told me around April when he went there, I wasn't really sure, I was just excited that omg if it eventually works out that would be awesome. So then I told my friends like 3 of them that I was close to that time, after a week we were checking something about university of lagos ( I was in ss3 then) then I was like ah Pls help me check too o and one of my friends I told about the america thing said "ah Dami, aren't you going to america again" I was so shocked and pained because I didn't expect ...