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Does Age really matter in a relationship or Age is just a number ? #PleasePickOne



Most people love when their guy is older even if it's months they are okay with it but does it really matter lol? 
I have many people I talk to daily so we obviously discuss different issues. Recently my friend (older than me with almost 4 years) was telling me that her partner is a year younger than her and she told her mum and her mum was against it immediately lol all these parents sef, I remember the day I said I didn't mind and my aunt shouted and said so you want someone that is your younger brothers age mate to climb you or something like that lol. 

Left to me age doesn't matter but I wouldn't like to date someone I'm older than to be honest .. Why? 
Just because 60% of ladies are more mature than guys. Sometimes you are talking to a guy that is your age mate and you can't believe what is coming out of his mouth. Too bad. But then there are so guys that you are older than just a few months not even up to a year or even a year and they act so matured and amazing so that's still okay in a relationship than a guy you are older than and he still acts childish. 

Sometimes it works out o, me I know a popular governors wife that is older than her husband with 2 years and you can't know. It's just between them. Love don't care to me.. But personally ild rather do my age mate than someone younger ..
The thing is, whatever you want would work for you either way, some people are indifferent about it and it works for them so it's also a matter of choice but if you have bad African mentality lol you would never settle for someone you are older than as the lady.
What do you think? 
Are you totally against it or you don't mind?

Share and find out people's stand..
God bless 😘

Comments

  1. Unknown29 October 2016 at 18:52

    He has to be older than I am,even if it's a year older... No parental pressure nor societal pressure but what I personally love and want. I can't speak for others because one man's food is another's poison. I'd rather say, do what works for you as long as you're happy.

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  2. Tayo o29 October 2016 at 19:05

    Age doesnt matter in my opinion. It doesn't guarantee the quality of the person

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  3. Unknown29 October 2016 at 19:12

    I've always been a lover of older guys and while it might be a primitive thing to others, it's all about personal preference. These days, age is not a determinant at all. This century has made a whole lot of us older than we even actually are but note, not all of us. Most of these guys, no offense, are just old for nothing. I have this friend I stopped talking to; why? Everything that comes out of his mouth, ehn! Even a 5-yr old child can't still be thinking like that. So, on that note, it all depends on if the guy is actually capable of thinking rationally at all times. And don't forget compatibility and love!
    Moyo Folami

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  4. Unknown29 October 2016 at 22:40

    Hahahahahaha!!! Me I really do mind the age ooo, I can't imagine myself dating someone younger than I am. But that doesn't make dating a younger person a sin. So it's relative.

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  5. Unknown29 October 2016 at 22:41

    Hahahahahaha!!! Me I really do mind the age ooo, I can't imagine myself dating someone younger than I am. But that doesn't make dating a younger person a sin. So it's relative.

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  6. Unknown29 October 2016 at 23:02

    Either way works but there are pros and cons. E.g. A younger guy who behaves mature and has his head screwed on may still lack relatable experiences I.e. Career path, sex etc compared to an older guy vice Versa.
    Ladies do you, don't listen to society!

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