Know where to draw the line, cut people off when necessary. Very important.

Lately I've been doing some personal check on myself. I was talking to my siblings the other day and they go "You go out of your way for people too much".. "You like making people feel too important" they were emphasizing on it (especially my brother)  .. It really got to me because they were giving examples but the good thing is I know when and where to draw the line. 

I really want to know if we have people that have some of these my Features lol because my siblings don't have it, just me.

The thing about me is that Im really nice when I like you(that I know) but I hardly like people like that o sure my people know. If I don't like you.. I can't hide it you just have to notice, I don't know how to hide my feelings I just say it the way it comes to my mind that's why sometimes I wonder how people can't say their mind  .. One day my mum told me my bluntness would put me in trouble if I'm not careful lol (God forbid) ..I have many people I talk to but I'm sure many of them know we ain't friends, I don't make friends with people I can't see them building themselves especially future wise. No one that has crossed 20 should still be playing games mehn. Round up school (if you are privileged ) and focus on yourself. 

Back to what I was saying.. But then when I get to like someone.. Oh God 😂😂 I go allllll the way out to the extent that my mum starts complaining. I can carry someone's issue on my head just because I want them to be happy and I want the best for them but the real question is are people really worth it ? 

My aunt was telling me a story of her and her very good friend that she shares many things with. Unfortunately the lady went to leak someone of her secret (very deep one that her partner shouldn't know yet) to her (my aunts) partner and it all messed up. She didn't care about how long the friendship was, she cut her off. She was trying to tell me you can cut anyone off and also that I should know where to draw the line with people. So many people are not meant to stay for long in your life to be honest, just to teach you some lessons and some to teach you how to love etc and leave. We have to learn to accept and know that everyone we have in our life today wouldn't be there Tomorrow only very few.  

But the other good thing about me is that once I make up my mind about you.. I ain't going back. I don't get angry at once but if you keep repeating the same thing.. I'm very open minded so ild tell you straight up.. See I don't like this thing but if you keep doing it that means you think I'm a fool and that means we can't work out tbh because I would keep complaining and you wouldn't like it. So I know how to draw the line but sometimes I draw it too late lol. So many people shouldn't be in your life tbh, don't invite nonsense into your life. I keep saying this.. People that can't pick you up and advice you aren't your true or real circle. If they start acting up please draw the line and zoom off. You would be surprised at how many people are dying to even relate with you lol.  Force relationship is terrible so don't even try to do it, it can be depressing!

Thank you for reading 💋.. God bless your beautiful eyes lol! Amen !!