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Growing up! - Sometimes act like the fool to save misunderstanding!


Growing up, I use to be really reserved at first and cry for everything but when I got to the age 14 downwards, I became a very different person, ild change it for anyone and just get angry. But now I'm different again.. I still love to be blunt but it's reducing .. It's just called growing up! 

The fact that somepeople can flare up at just the slightest thing can just make me so amazed, I love to flare up too and tell you off bluntly but it has kept me in trouble and also helped me in some ways but recently I noticed that just flaring up at everything is stupid. Very stupid. 

I've been keeping quiet for things I know I normally wouldn't take and one thing in me is calling me mumu but I know it's just part of growing up.

Over looking things ... Extremely necessary, sometimes you have to just say somethings to somepeople no matter how bad but how you put it goes a long way.
Some might still get what you mean but some would still misunderstand so just to save the misunderstanding, act like the fool sometimes and just let the issue slide, not everytime wait for apology, give yourself that apology and move on!
The fact that somepeople think age determines the level of someone's  maturity amazes me because somethings somepeople would say you just look at them like what?! Bottom line is sometimes you have to act like the dumb one to just get things in order and also to save a lot of clash/conflict so the day that fight would happen, it would be exclusive!

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  1. Pweetyblack26 November 2016 at 08:01

    Gbam,u couldn't Ve said it better...acting dumb doesn't mean u re dumb,keeping quiet at times saves u from a lot of trouble.

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