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Social media Jazz/JuJu 2


Thanks to everyone that read part 1 and as I said on Monday, this part 2 is about pregnancy.


There's this lady that got pregnant, she was so excited so she would post her whole pregnancy details online,if she gets back from the hospitals her followers would know what the doctor said, Instagram was her place and she would even make videos of her growing baby bump. Everyone could calculate when she's due, and even know how many weeks/months the pregnancy is sef.

She finally gave birth and she shared it again on Instagram, she made videos and all at least everyday. Fast forward to a week or two after she had the baby, the baby died. She was heart broken, she now had to explain to her followers all that happened, something that is meant to be something personal but she made it known already because no video or post again it was very painful because explaining yourself to people that aren't even related to you is one very tough thing to do. She had to take all her pregnancy videos and posts down. 

What's my point? Sharing with people that you are pregnant or you just had a baby is a thing of joy, no one should hide pregnancy news when it's obvious already, even when people give birth somepeople would hide it and all, it's not good because you are hiding Gods blessing, let people rejoice with you but putting all the informations out is just not it, not everyone on social media has a good heart.. People would always wait for your downfall and you don't want them to succeed so it would be best for everyone of us to filter and know what we put on social media even their relationship info and all, it's not good, once in a blue moon would be better than when people know you and your partner are having issues. 

May God continue to help us! #DamStar! 

Comments

  1. Anonymous23 September 2015 at 11:12

    Amen dear,very true my dear,it's good to share ur joy but knw your limit and don't dish out everything.not everyone that's smile at u wish u well.pls don't let us forget that....peace

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  2. My Testimony23 September 2015 at 11:51

    Very true like instagram is now their diary. God bless you too boo 💋

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  5. Unknown23 September 2015 at 13:00

    So true! A lot of lessons learned in two posts(This and the previous one) Don't expose too much about your private life to the world. Not everyone that smiles back is a friend. Well noted! Thanks for this❤

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  6. Unknown23 September 2015 at 20:22

    I really learnt a lot from this post!!!

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  7. Unknown23 September 2015 at 20:22

    I really learnt a lot from this post!!!

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