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This is something that happened to me personally and I just have to share because the rate at which people bother themselves about some things ehnn. We have to understand that things can't always work out for us like that, if it would work out, it would at "Gods Time". After I finished high school, my dad wanted me to go to Babcock university but then I wrote the exam and I was picked for another course So someone contacted my dad and told him about america, he told me around April when he went there, I wasn't really sure, I was just excited that omg if it eventually works out that would be awesome. So then I told my friends like 3 of them that I was close to that time, after a week we were checking something about university of lagos ( I was in ss3 then) then I was like ah Pls help me check too o and one of my friends I told about the america thing said "ah Dami, aren't you going to america again" I was so shocked and pained because I didn't expect ...

So when she got to her friends house, she was crying as she started talking, she said when she was young, her parents died so she had to live with her grandpa so in their compound there were about 3 aunties living in one room there so she used to help them buy things to get tip because her grandpa didn't have enough to take care of her and himself. So they used to talk about men and bad things so she said they persuaded her to join them so that's how she became grade 1 "prostitute", she said she was even worse than them, she was very smart in school so in university she was very good and people use to envy her but people that knew her real character wouldn't envy her because she wasn't clean. She said when she finished school,she was still young after her NYSC so she went for her second degree so that's where she met her friend (tomisin - the person she's explaining this story to her sister ) so that she met one man called MrB, he was always calling he...

Hello beautiful people!! Thanks for reading "show me love part 1" last week, the condluding part would be up on Saturday.  This 2015, my life has been kind of up and down because so many things I didn't believe or expect to happen actually happened, I learnt so much lessons, got to know myself more and know more about my parents and siblings because I was away for a while. Some times some things just happen that just shocks me like what? How come? There are so many things am working towards that I pray would manifest really big by Gods grace so I Can actually  say how I really feel and share testimonies.  Most times I just feel very moody and sad for no reason, I might be crying at times, I just open my bible to psalm 46 and just say God Pls make me happy even if I know am pained for no reason, it happens when u just feel empty and sad and immedately I do that, God intervenes and just makes something else come up! I have friends that don't even pray regularly, but onc...

 This is a story written by seyi Ashekun which I really love and I want to share! Fifehanmi was a young married woman with a female child olawumi, her husband would beat her everyday and night because of a reason best know to him, after beating her he would now force her and have sex with her again and he can even be slapping her as he's doing it.  This her husband we are talking about was going to be a senator so she would cover up the bruises with makeup and stuff but he wouldn't still appreciate it he would be pretending outside. So one of her room mates in university had a younger sister who was a writer and she wanted to write about a true life story so her friend called her to tell her, she was like what's so special about her story (because only ppl in the house knew that her husband use to beat her) so she said they should try to come on Sunday that she would tell the gateman so he can open the gate. She was already pregnant that time, on this Sunday, her husband wa...

As promised last week, I have started blogging again this week! And this is a story a friend sent to me. Feel free to share with others and try to read and understand.  I  read my sister Damstar previous blog post and I thought I should share this for the married women and the single ladies too so they can pick one or two things from it.  There was one day my mom sold a shoe to my neighbour. She liked the shoe and all and she even paid already. Then that night, my mom received a call from her that 'Her husband said she should return the shoe because she didn't seek his consent'. My mom was dumbstruck! Like she hadn't heard something like that in her life. The next day, the lady came with the shoe and said that her husband even asked her to return it that night that she can only wear or use anything he buys for her yet she's working. She's a good fashion designer that makes good cash! So I asked myself; "What should she use her money for?" If she wants ...

I don't blog on Sunday's but I had to just put up this story and I want it to get to as many people as possible so because of that, there wouldn't be any story up until upper week :).   Every day of my life since have been growing into a woman, I have always imagined myself as a very strong and independent woman. I don't like depending on people at all, I hate it! If you ask my parents am sure they would tell you, i just love to do things on my own because that brings no dissappointment.. Parents dissappoint, friends dissappoint, even partners and siblings dissappoint the only person that doesn't dissappoint is God and I know he has my back. Growing up has shown me so many things and how people can be, it's even the ones that you really love deeply that start showing you that you don't really mean anything to them, some wouldn't even want to talk to you because you probably forgot to message or something and it's even worse because you even ask peopl...

LOOOL sorry for the suspense Fam! So this is the continuation of Thursday's story.  So as she tried to call his number to see if he was the one in the guy she was looking at, he then picked that he is the one that she should come into the car. She was scared and shocked.  She hopped in, the man was so fat like in a jeep he was still looking like sardine inside can. She was shocked, she then asked him who the person on his facebook profile picture was then he said that's his younger brother in America or so she now asked him why he lied and why he didn't show his true self, he said he didn't want to discourage her, from there she was already getting nervous/angry. So when they got where he was taking her to she found out by the gate that it was an hotel. She then screamed already! She asked why hotel? Don't you have house or something? He didn't say anything he just told her to come down, she followed him down, he then took her into the room in the hotel, she was...

Randomly one day I was telling my mum about a story, sometimes we just have to go through a very rough path to find joy and what we want. She then shared a story with me and I would share it too :). There was this lady, she was schooling in the eastern part of nigeria, she wasn't so exposed to social media life and all, she was using Nokia torchlight (3310) or something so when she got into the university she saw that everyone was having camera phone/ smartphones and all so she decided to also save money to get one. She noticed everyone used to use facebook, so she signed up and started using Facebook too. After two days, she got a friend request from one handsome guy, she then checked his nice pictures and she accepted it. They started talking and talking, from there he started sending her money 10k,20k even 50k for different projects and all. He was a very nice friend so he had travelled to the UK for something so when he arrived he messaged her again to come and get the things h...

I have watched serveral movies and read different stories and even heard different ones. So am going to share one of it today.   Somepeople are so stingy like I can't explain, it's very sad because me if I like you I can do anything for you and if I don't and I see you need help I would do it but somepeople are self centered with anything, if you ask them for somethig they would always give excuse, I have people am very close to that are like that, they are nice but they are stingy and am sure they even know. What's there to help if you have? Ordinary 1000 somepeople have but they would still cut it to 500 naira 😑, somepeople are even from very rich homes but they would still minimize their life. If i don't give you, believe me it's because I don't have and if I have i would try my best to do one I can. And to stingy people, your reward is coming . There was a man and his wife, they were stingy to the core, asin they were so stingy that if they fart and the...

At times we just have to think twice.. God can be awesome, he helps us when we even think all hope is lost! Myself and my mum went to my uncles house yesterday, so on our way back this rain just started all of a sudden ..  I was angry because I hate third mainland bridge, it's too long and scary.. This rain just started heavily, it was just too heavy, I was just kind of pitying my mum because as she was activating the wiper, it couldn't even withstand the rain, that rain was just too heavy. So me I was just praying because my mum was just horning and horning somepeople couldn't see again, the rain don block everybody eye. When we were almost getting down from third mainland bridge, we were at the middle, I just saw one small car it almost fell inside the water, at that point my heart skipped, I started thinking of some weird bad things, I just kept on saying God forbid .. I wonder what just brought the car back down because the car was already slanting towards the green and...

Sorry for not putting up a story on Thursday, I am extremely "squashed" up at the moment so it's taking my time and all, because of that, as sad as it might sound but I just have to say it, I might be blogging twice a week now, if I have so much time, I would blog three times but if not Tuesday/Thursday/Saturday. You can check on the blog on those days for a new story.   Today's Story!  Different things happen to us daily, at times we ask God why is it happening? But it might still turn around to be good.  I was speaking with one of my sisters about a week ago, I was telling her something then she told me that so many things have to happen for us to say that's our testimony, you can't just want money or child or husband to come up like that without you having a story to tell, God wants us to build our testimony so people can learn from us and rejoice with us. If your testimony is in something, you would go through a lot because that'...

Thank you all so much for the reviews from my previous pressure post. To all the mummies and daddies I got your awesome feedbacks and I appreciate. God bless you all and my friends too! And this thank you smile in my picture above is for yall :). Today's Topic We live in a world where by people just think its right to keep grudges. Somepeople would say I would never apologize because he/she would think am a fool. Not in all situations, saying sorry means you really value that relationship and it helps and goes a long way. In my family, it's only my mum that doesn't get angry deeply because she's more emotional.  I pray everytime that God helps us control our anger even if it's not that bad but anger is a very bad thing and I would share a story. One day, Jimi and mide (couples) were on their way to work, they loved each other and it was just too awesome but Jimi had bad anger issues. Almost time for mide to leave home to work tha...

This is MaritalPressure! I have noticed that 40% of people that read my blog are my mums friends because I get their feedbacks, infact one of them said in the previous "thank you" post I didn't say "Eshe" lol, eshe gan ni o ma. I have always wanted to talk about this one day but am happy it's becoming a reality now.   The kind of pressure female kids "of age"(26 and above)  in our african word, get to get married is very bad, I heard it has started happening to guys sef lol. The thing about parents is that God gave us to them to guide us seriously not to change our minds 100% about our decisions, we have our own lives, my name is Oluwadamilola, my mums name is Olamide she gave birth to me but we are two different people, what I like isn't what She likes and what I want isn't what she wants and vice versa so like that. It's a very bad thing to rush into marriage and of course I would share a story.  Mothers especially...